Every woman has her own list of sexual fantasies that she longs to fulfill, whether that be being picked up, pinned down or masturbated on repeatedly! Women want it all!
Sometimes these fantasies may seem inappropriate or taboo; but taking the risk and having them done for pleasure can be highly rewarding. Here are some great xxx fantasy sex games to satisfy those cravings!
Spanking
Spanking is an integral component of fantasy sex and an effective way to fulfill both pleasure and pain, elevating your sex experience in significant ways.
As soon as you start engaging in erotic spanking, be sure to consult with your partner beforehand and confirm they’re comfortable. Doing this ensures no interruptions from their side that could halt or slow the experience down.
As part of your conversation, discuss any concerns and how you would like the process to continue. If you are uncertain if your boyfriend is willing to participate, don’t hesitate to express this sentiment.
Many BDSM couples use spanking during sex as a way of strengthening the bond between them and as an affirmation of the power differentials between partners. It can also serve as an effective way for submissives to show their dominant partners they’re submissive, providing another tool for dominance-submission training.
History demonstrates the long and rich tradition of spanking as a sexual act dating all the way back to Ancient Rome and Etruscan Tomb of Whipping fresco which dates to around 490 B.C.
At the turn of the 19th century, interest in sexual gratification through spanking began to increase dramatically and this can be seen through spanking literature published during this era and photography focusing on this activity.
There were numerous works published during this era (which is known as the „Golden Age” of spanking literature), often available only in limited editions and mass-produced paperbacks to make them more widely accessible to a wider audience.
One or two of these works remain in print today, though more commonly online. Some were written originally in French and now fall under public domain; others remain available both in English and other languages.
Women often fantasize about being spanked or given hard spankings as a form of self-expression and to alleviate childhood sexual abuse. Being sexually abused themselves as children leaves no other outlet to express themselves sexually and reclaim power – some even believe being spanked will make their sex relationship work better as the experience will help make them more submissive.
Taboo Situations
Sex should be one of the most thrilling experiences possible, yet it can often turn awkward or embarrassing. This is especially true of fantasy sex where it can be tempting to get carried away with some risky or embarrassing behaviors. Luckily there are safe ways to explore various scenarios in your imagination without hurting or angering your partner too much.
Once you find a fantasy that you and your partner enjoy, make sure to try it again and again. You might discover an exciting twist you hadn’t anticipated and keep things exciting in your bedroom! This can keep things exciting.